Donna and the Dogs
Ramblings of a dog writer

And I Was Worried they'd MISS Me?

October 18, 2011 21:24 by Donna

After a weeklong vacation in Vermont, Nick and I were happy to find all of our dogs safe and sound as we retrieved each of them from their temporary homes, and were glad to greet our cats, who remained in our house under the care of Lisa, our local Critter Sitter. As usual, I worried excessively about each of their welfares while we were gone, a habit I just can’t shake ever since we lost two animals unexpectedly during vacations past….our beloved Doberman, Harley, who died in his kennel at the young age of five, without apparent cause, and my sweet, shy cat, Sashi, who appeared to have passed in her sleep, to be discovered upon our return.

In addition to these two tragedies, we returned home from a subsequent trip to learn that Toby had become so distraught while being boarded that he had run in circles until his paws bled…which was the last time we boarded an animal in a traditional kennel.

On top of all that, my cat Cinder freaks out when we leave him, and we had to cancel two trips to Florida in the past because he got cystitis just before we left. We realized, in hindsight, that it was caused by the stress of us packing…so we now must pack behind closed doors.

Actually, considering all we’ve been though, it’s surprising that we muster up the courage to pack at all.

But, we do like to travel, despite the fact that taking a trip has grown into a major event, and it has now become one of the very rare times that I regret having so many animals under my care. Not because of the expense, or the packing, or the planning, or the running around from place to place – but because of my extreme dread. Every phone call makes my heart skip a beat, every unanswered call a reason to hold my breath. Will this one get sick and go unnoticed by the sitter? Will that one not get along with the other animals they are staying with? Will this one eat something and get blocked? Will that one escape?

Will one of them die?

Well, apparently, this time, my worry was for naught. It appears I placed each of my furry friends into the best possible places during my absence and each had more fun on their vacations then I could have ever imagined….so much so…I suspect they all are wishing we would leave again.

Not only did my Mom report that Leah finally stopped burping and making the strange “something is caught in my throat” noise, but she played with my Mom’s young German shepherd Luke with such abandon that one would think she was a pup herself. Along with that, in the middle of greeting me, my Mom lured her away from me with a simple salmon treat. That, I’d expect from Toby – but never from Leah! Grandma’s goodies were so plentiful, in fact, that Leah laid down and turned away from the first meal I offered her the next morning. The look in her eyes said it all, “Grandma would never make me eat that.”

As for Toby, my dear friend Bev reports that he loved having a much bigger home to stay in, zooming through her halls like a maniac, barreling around with so much speed that she worried he’d end up with a torn ACL. When he wasn’t running himself ragged, he spent his time lounging like a king on his pick of dog beds, surrounded by all of the toys he had stolen from the toy box that belongs to her lovely goldens - Meggie, Maureen, and Orlagh. In response, Orlagh stole Toby’s blue dumbbell, squirreling it away up on the sofa, which surprisingly, he refused to jump on. Bev commended Toby on that, and all of his good behavior during his entire visit; how he didn’t touch anything he wasn’t supposed to, and was a gentleman around the girls.

Toby has always enjoyed making a liar out of me.

And what about little Miss Meadow, our fearful flight risk? She had the honor of staying with her previous foster Mom, Lesli, a friend that Meadow brought into my life, and with whom I have so much in common, I am continuously surprised. Under Lesli’s watchful eye, and with the added security of double leashes, Meadow got to go for hikes in the country, (instead of the litter ridden woods adjacent to our home), she had time to explore the very meadow she was named for, had a play date with another Vizsla, was constantly surrounded by five friendly dogs (the more the merrier), and even got to sleep on a human bed! Plus she got to spend time with an old friend, who loves her very much and nearly adopted her, had she not been waiting for her own special heart dog to arrive – another flighty escapee named Tawnie.

So, after gathering up three dogs who had each forgotten my face, I thought, “Maybe the cats missed me?” As it turns out, Cinder did; the poor little guy has been pandering for my attention since the moment he ‘forgave’ me – several hours after we returned home. Mew curled right up on Nick's lap, giving me the cold shoulder as always, and both cats turned their noses up at the dry food I fed them the next morning, pining for the canned food that they only receive as an extra treat while under Lisa's care. Additionally, with the dogs back in town, gone are the furry little toy mice I left for them to play with. It was either that, or suffer the surgical consequences of two (red) dogs believing that plastic enrobed in rabbit fur is a delicacy.

Hmmmm….maybe next time, we should stay away a little longer?


Comments (13) -

October 19. 2011 03:21

Amanda@Click the Good News

Yea for the vacation!  I'm sorry to hear that the ones in the past had been so traumatizing and tough for your family.  Glad to hear that everybody did so well- especially Ms Meadow.  I love that she got to return to her "found place".

Amanda@Click the Good News

October 19. 2011 09:16

Donna

Amanda - the vacation was great - you would have loved to shoot some photos there - we got there just as the leaves were starting to change, and the scenery was just magnificent!! And it definitely set my mind at ease to know Meadow was safe while we were exploring the mountains...she was actually found in upstate New York, but was fostered in Vermont. Lesli has access to this wonderful meadow that she explores regularly with her own dogs, and she named Meadow after it, because when she took her in, she was "Wild, yet peaceful." Smile

Donna

October 19. 2011 11:03

Kristine

I hope you had a wonderful time in Vermont! I am so sorry your previous holidays were marred by very sad homecomings. I can't imagine the feeling of coming home to find your beloved companion had passed away. Or that your dog had been so miserable in a kennel he made himself bleed. After that, I don't know if I would have left ever again.

As it is, I have yet to take a vacation away from my dog, mostly because of these concerns. With her separation anxiety I am terrified she could suffer a major setback or worse. I am not even sure about taking her to doggy daycare for a couple of hours.

But, I am so glad this time you were able to find the exact right place for everyone and no one was overly distraught at your absence. What a relief!

Kristine

October 19. 2011 11:44

Jodi

Donna,
I'm glad to see I'm not the only one who worries when they are away from their pets.  I had never actually thought something might happen to one of THEM.  Instead I worry about something happening to US and who will take care of them.

It is so upsetting to me that I cry when I leave them.

We wouldn't be going if our daughter wasn't graduating from school in California.  If it was close by and we could drive I would take them with me.

I'm glad all turned out well for your vacation.

Jodi

October 19. 2011 13:33

Donna

Kristine - we did have a great time, despite the worry....thanks! I have to say, our Dobe who died unexpectedly had severe separation anxiety too, so I know how hard it is to consider leaving a dog that suffers from it anywhere. Hopefully, Shiva will be past that one day.

Jodi - Great, now I have something ELSE to worry about. Wink

Donna

October 19. 2011 13:54

lauren @ life with desmond

so glad all was well upon arrival home!

gosh, i have only ever been away from desmond for 24 hours, and it's been torture every time (i don't know whose SA is worse, mine or his!). we're going on a trip for five days this winter, and i'm dreading it. the only thing we have going for us is the fact that desmond has no idea what real suitcases are, since he's seen us use overnight bags all this time. should be interesting...

lauren @ life with desmond

October 19. 2011 14:03

Donna

Lauren - At least if you've done the 24 hour thing already, you know how he (and you) both react to being apart. A few more days should be cake! Where are you headed too, anyway?

Donna

October 19. 2011 14:14

lauren @ life with desmond

we are headed to cleveland for a wedding. we were going to drive and take him with us, but w/the BSL there, we figured we would be better off going alone. we're having him stay with someone from the Goodnight Lucky network--the same woman he stayed with for our overnight trip (and her dalmation, Spot).

lauren @ life with desmond

October 19. 2011 14:22

Donna

Oh, that's too bad about the BSL. Probably a good choice to leave him behind, and just perfect that he can stay at the same place he is familiar with. Have a fun trip!

Donna

October 20. 2011 23:20

ForPetsSake

Oh how I worry the same when we're away (which is not very often) and now even MORE so considering all you've been through!! I admit I'm always in a panic when it comes time to think about leaving the kiddos.  I'm sure I'm far more dependent on them than they are on me...
And working in a vet clinic with a kennel - I'll never board my pups somewhere like that.  WAY too much stress.  
Glad you're safe and home!

ForPetsSake

October 21. 2011 10:06

Donna

I'd be especially worried about a vet run kennel, too close to sick dogs for my taste!!

Donna

October 22. 2011 13:02

Dennis the Vizsla

We haven't had an animal pass away while we were on vacation yet, but it came close with both Pooh Bear and Trouble -- each kitty crossed the Bridge only a month or two after we got back from a trip.  Glad everyone weathered your latest vacation safe and sound!

Dennis the Vizsla

October 22. 2011 13:25

Donna

Awww, sorry about both kitties, but so glad nothing happened while you were away. And don't say "yet" - hopefully that will be the last of anything remotely similar for you guys!!

Donna

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